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Always keep in mind Blame?

"We must learn to be our best friends because we fall easily into the trap of being our worst enemies." Roderick Thorp "

In the last week I met several people who have found themselves in situations that do not go as they wanted. In an instant blamed! Wondering what is wrong with them that things go as they hoped.

"Was it something I said or did, or am I unattractive? What is wrong with me? Why things are so limited, or why not even start.

The most extreme example of this are women (or men) who have been abused. Whether verbal, physical, emotional, never mind. If someone hits you or degrade or make you feel bad about yourself, these victims incredibly think, what I did wrong? Was it something I said or did that made me realize?

They blame themselves as if fault that this person would attack them. In fact accept responsibility for be abused! Never occurs to them that they were not at all.

They never would think, what is wrong with him to act like an animal? What's wrong with him for being so cruel? What is your problem he would think it is okay to abuse me? "He has to go", never enter your mind!

As I said this is extreme, but we will have a more common scenario, one I've seen recently.

A friend knows someone online. They begin to communicate fairly regularly, at his insistence. They talk about everything and even making plans to meet soon, possibly because they do not live near each other.

So … out of nothing, just stops all communication, all of a sudden, nothing, nothing more, finite. She asked me: "You think it was something I said? What I had to stop contacting me? Is anyone better?

I said, "Whhhaaatttt? Why do you think it was you?" My automatic thought was what is your problem? What a tug to take someone out, have fun and know each other limitation, in the blink of an eye, without courtesy of a goodbye.

I said, "There is nothing wrong with you except that you can not see that it is him and not you!" My thinking follows the lines From This guy has no decency or respect, at least to say, "Gee it was nice meeting you and wish you well, but keep going."

Or I should say, this guy does not even have the class to say goodbye or anything. This guy is a real player and probably do it all the time.

I certainly would not I blame myself for not having what it takes to hold onto Internet Man. " Also said to her, just what you want, a guy whose hobby is to browse the Internet for people. That's what attracts me, NO!

The reality is that sometimes things just do not go as we want. If you play the lottery and lose you say, "What is what happens to me I did not get the numbers right? "I do not blame yourself for losing?

Life does not always go as planned or wants but rather what does take the world on his shoulders and act like everything is your fault? Does it make you feel better about yourself or worse?

I'm not saying you do not take responsibility when mistakes are made, but God knows when someone take responsibility makes the mistakes is a very significant burden, and does not need or deserve.

So if you go to blame yourself for someone else's flaws or lack of integrity or the inability to treat people right, ask yourself: "Why blame me for actions another person? Why should we accept your lack of decency and turn against myself, as if I were not they?

Know that you are a good person generous, loving, and if someone wants to act like a jerk, certainly not your fault. Do not take the blame when someone treats you badly or not you are wrong. It's really them and not you. Wake up every day and thank God you are not!

The only bad thing is thinking there is something wrong with you.

So, now you know the truth, the next time you are visited by a situation where they want to blame yourself for another person's actions or response to that simply do not remember it and sometimes things We simply do not go and has nothing to do with you.

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